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Asian-Asian & Asian-Western Couples – Discuss Before Getting Married

There are some members at our Asian dating site asked me about what to do or things to discuss before getting married with a single woman or man they met online. So, I am writing this article to briefly discuss about this. This is based on my personal experience and what I’ve read from online tips. I’ve met my husband online 10 years ago and I like to share some advice.

Asian-Asian couple & marriage

Asian-Asian couple & marriage

It does not matter if you are an Asian man who met a woman and go back to your original hometown to get married or you are a western man who met an Asian woman, as well as you are an Asian lady who met a single man in the West, you should communicate about what your expectations about married life before jumping on it. Don’t expect the married life as bright as the light. There are some dark sides that you need to discuss with your significant partner.

  1. Sex is the most important thing in your relationship so make sure you are completely satisfied. Some people are being single for a long time so when they have sex with their second half, they feel great and they think they are satisfied, but in fact, it is not. So, think about this matter as it is very important for your married life.
  2. Home mortgage is the thing you need to talk with your future soul mate. If you live in the US, Canada, Australia or other Western countries and you own a house, most of us have an outstanding debt called home mortgage, then you need to briefly explain about this or she may not understand or get scared of the big debt you currently have. For example, you live in Los Angeles of California and buy a house for $400,000, put 20% for down payment and still owe $320,000. This is the big money in Asia, like 15 millions pesos in Philippines, 2 millions Chinese Yuan, 11 millions Thai Baht, 1.3 billions Cambodian Riel, 6.8 billions Vietnamese Dong and so on.
  3. You and your partner may need to discuss about how many children are enough. Do you want kids or how many are questions you should ask your partner. Especially, when Asian men in the West or Western men get married with middle-aged Asian ladies (U40+) who are widowed or divorced, you guys should ask them about these questions.
  4. Where to live is the question for a woman. You should as your fianc√© about where to live. Does he own a house? Does he live with his parents and siblings? Ask him when you come to the West, where are you two going to live? In the West, most people are independent so they usually don’t live with their parents and/or siblings, unless they are poor who can’t afford their own place so they have to share the rent with their family.
  5. For most of Christian Asian and Western people, they all believe in God. So, make sure you ask your partner what their religion is and if they want to join your Christian religion. Some people want to keep their own religion.
  6. Household errands are the questions you don’t have to ask if you marry an Asian wife. Most Asian wives are perfect in household work like washing dishes, doing laundry, cooking meals, etc.
  7. If you are an Asian man who gets married, then you know about tie family obligations. Most Asian people are tie with their family, siblings and relatives. Some of them don’t even need friends but family is just enough for them. If you are a Western man, then you should ask about this with her.
  8. Career is also an important issue you need to discuss with your future partner. Most of Asian ladies don’t work after they have babies. They just stay home to handle errands and take care of the kids. So you need to talk to her about the busy lifestyle in the West, that she needs to work and share the bills with you.
  9. When it comes to money, it is hard to ask but you should talk straightly about bank accounts and bill sharing with your future partner. Most married couples argue about this money issue so straight it out right now. Do you want to share a bank account or open an account under your own name? How about sharing bills like home mortgage, utilities, medical insurance, and etc.
Asian-Western Couples n Marriages

Asian-Western Couples n Marriages (Google images)

Every year, there are many marriages from Asian-Asian singles and Western-Asian personals. When they come to the Western countries, including America, Canada, Australia, Italy, France, UK, and so on, there are about 25% couples broke. The major reason that causes them separated or divorced is the lack of communication which lead to wrong understanding from one of another. You need to understand that the lifestyle in the West is different from Asia. The United States of America is the land of opportunities for those who are smart and working hard.

Why are Old Chinese Men the Ideal Husbands for Single Women in China?

If you ask a Chinese woman about the ideal husband she wants to marry, then the answer will be the middle-aged man who is around 40 years old, successful in life, as well as who have a car and a house. A divorced Chinese man is the more preferable husband than a single man toward women in China in terms of choosing the best husband. Most of old men have male traits that young men don’t have. However, there are many unmarried ladies in this country because of these picky choice. They are “lelftover” or shang nu women who are over 28 years old and unmarried.

Old Chinese man and young woman

Old Chinese man and young woman

It is hard to find such a man who is available in China. If they are 40 and successful, then most of them are married. However, they usually have love affairs with other young women. This is another issue that single ladies are afraid of. Since Chinese girls set high standards on seeking a husband, most of them are still not married. So they have to sign up their personal ads through online dating services in China to find such a good husband. They’d rather stay single but don’t want to marry a “bad” man. From these Chinese dating sites, they are in hope to find a middle-aged man who owns a house and have a car so they are good taken care of.

Again, it is not easy to find such men in China. Most of single ladies also look for Chinese men who live in the West. This is an easier way. Nowadays, there are many single old Chinese American, Australian, Canadian men who are single and looking for a wife back home. I have to define Chinese men who live in USA, Australia, Canada, France and others so you can understand more about them. They are immigrants along with their descendants from Mainland China, Hong Kong, Macau, Taiwan, and others. Most of these guys have a hard time to find a young Chinese wife in the West so they are looking for in their hometown. This is the excellent choice for single young women back home because they are perfectly matched.

Chinese girls want to have security in life. They want to live with a man who can take care of them on safety about finance. In China, most single women are adviced to stay away from Phoenix men who discriminate and strictly choose the future wife. They are the guys who try hard in life for succeed in career so they don’t get married with less qualified than them. If a lady is not rich, then she won’t be qualified for the phoenix men.

Single girls in China have traditional thoughts about marriage. They think marriage as a lifetime commitment so divorce is shameful for the family. People have tie family relationship so they want to find a husband for life. That’s why they are looking for an old and success husbands. If you search for a Chinese single lady in China and drop her a message and you are the same or older than her 5 years old, then you won’t get a reply from her. She thinks that you are not matured enough for her. This is the reason that most young Chinese single women seeking a husband who is at least 10 years older than them.

Finally, I personally think that Chinese women have a hard time in choosing a marriage partner. There are many difficult standards they set about the husband that are getting married in the future. I suggest that single Chinese girls should use the internet dating sites to help them find such a man. Don’t just rely on introductions from relatives or friends, they must take action to find their dream husband. Age is getting older, you know?

So, old Chinese men are the ideal husbands for single, divorced or widow women in China because of their secured financial status and materials.

Asian Women Have No Option To Marry An Oversea Husband

If an Asian woman could marry a good man in Asia, then she will not find a foreign husband in America, Europe or Australia. In most of developing Asian nations like the Philippines, China, Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand, there is class distinction between the poor and the rich people. The rich class usually won’t marry the poor class. It is too hard for poor people to move up in a society. Most of the rich people have good connection with the government so they can work and succeed in their business.

Asian wife & husband at Christmas party

Asian wife & husband at Christmas party

The poor Asian women usually find other ways to move up and get rich, especially marry an oversea spouse to immigrate to the West so they can work and make good money. Every year, there are more than 3,000 Vietnamese brides who come to the United States by marriage sponsor from their husbands. Most of these husbands are Vietnamese Americans or Viet Kieu USA who came back to their hometown and married these girls. In the Philippines, the number of marriages between Filipino men who live in the West (Pinoy) and local Filipina ladies are higher than the number of Vietnamese ladies who married Viet Kieu. Most of these women are below-averaged class who want to move up. Of course, Chinese brides who come to the US through marriage sponsor are the most.

There are some good and bad stories between these marriages. Many young Asian women are willing to accept the old husband whose age around their father’s age. Some beautiful and sexy single women in Asia accept ugly and old Asian men who live in the West because their goal is to come to the West to live. After they come to the USA, Canada, Australia or other European countries and became the permanent resident, they file a divorce. I think about 30% of such marriages are broken after they came to the new nation. Another reason is that most Asian men come back to their hometown and just marry beautiful and young girls so they are matched from the public point of view.

Back to our topic, most of Asian girls can’t find a good man there. If she could find a good husband in Asia, then she won’t leave the country. A good man can be defined as a man who love her and can help her family. In this case, she has a hard time to find that man because most of higher classes of men won’t marry the poor ladies. Most of these rich men think the poor women are gold-diggers so they won’t marry them. They want to find the wife whose is similar to theirs about material things. This is another reason that Asian ladies have no option but find a husband oversea.

An Asian woman is seeking a foreign husband who can help her parents and siblings. There is no way she can find such a good man in Asia who can do that. She must immigrate to a developed country so she can work and make money to help her parents, brothers and sisters. There are some husbands of these Asian women must send money to support their wife’s family back home on a monthly basis. Also, these Asian women come to the West try to make money and send back home to help their family as well.

Domestic violence is another reason that Asian women want to get married overseas. Low class men who are not educated usually treat women badly. They don’t have any respect for their wife. They control their wife too much. They get drunk almost every day. They can beat the wife if she dares to talk or argue with them. There are many such men in Asia. Most of Asian women are scared to get married by such guys.

On social networking sites like Facebook, Twitter, Google Plus and online dating sites like Asiandatenet, Asiandating or others, there are millions of single women looking for oversea men. They are seeking Asian men who live in America, Canada, Australia, Germany, Italy, France, and other European men. I personally think Asian women are going on the right track to find a husband oversea.

To all Single Chinese Women – a Secret to Find a Husband in 30 Days

Most over 25-years-old women in China are stressful and pressured to get married because they don’t want to be in the list of Shang-Nu or leftover. Single Chinese women in this country who are over 25 years old are eagerly seeking help from marriage experts of how to get hitched. Unmarried women at this age become societal pressures that many of them don’t dare to go out in public. They don’t have enough confidence to look at their friends who are married and have kids.

Leftover women in China - Unmarried Chinese ladies

Leftover women in China – Unmarried Chinese ladies

It’s about culture. Chinese women are traditionally married early in their life. When a woman is over 26 years old, she is considered a Shang-Nu or “leftover woman” in the society. This is the insult for those women, you know? That’s the attitude that people view such unmarried women who are not chosen by men. They are stressful and usually find a way to get hitched. They don’t want to be “leftover women” in China. Chinese people don’t have sympathy for these leftover women.

In China, if you are a woman then you should get married before you approach 25. It does not matter what level of education you are pursuing, getting married is the most important thing you should do. There are many successful women in China in their career. They are not married and they become societal pressures. It is hard to them to find a man with high standards now. When it comes to pick up a counterpart, they set high standards. So, they are left over women because they are too successful.

Many experts who have been helping single women in China to find a husband but it is hard. They guarantee that these Chinese ladies will find a life partner in 90 days. I personally doubt about the high success rate of these programs. Seeking a boyfriend or a husband is not about the same method that you read from a written book. Every woman has different concepts about how to choose their life partner. As you know some single ladies in China are in a rush of finding a husband so they chose the wrong guy and file divorced after marriage.

I personally think that you’d rather live alone and be happy than live unhappily with a husband you don’t love. Being a leftover Chinese girl is nothing wrong or humiliated. You should not care much about what the society view on you. You must live for yourself. Don’t rush into finding a boyfriend that you don’t have feeling for. You will regret later on. It takes time to find that special someone.

How do single women in China find a husband?

Chinese woman n man at Christimas tree

Chinese woman n man at Christimas tree

Social networking sites and online dating services are the solution for single women in China to get hitched. You are the boss of your time in using these websites to find your significant partner. Within 30 days, you can find a boyfriend that you love and he is your lifelong counterpart. No experts help here, you do your own thing. You are the one who control your own destiny. Don’t listen to other people. When it comes to love and marriage, you must go and find it by yourself.

Days 1-5: You sign up a profile at a social networking site or a China dating site such as Asiandatenet.com or others. Waiting to get approved takes sometime. You should be honest on your profile. You also need to post your most current pictures on it. You will receive emails from men who want to make friends with you. You only reply to guys whom you like to move on.

Days 6-10: You ask these guys to video chat online via Skype, Yahoo Messenger, Tango, Viber and so on to know their face. You make sure they are real and sweet. You keep chatting with them for a few times. You decide to keep the best guys only to continue. Keep talking and chatting with these men and select two best ones.

Days 11-15: It is time to meet face to face with these two best men. You must meet each single man in different time. Precaution is the big plus. Just ask them to meet in public places like restaurants, malls and etc. When you meet each other them, try to judge him carefully by the way he talks, wears and act.

Days 16-20: You should go out with these men again. This is the second date. Keep judging him again.

Days 21-25: Continue going out with them to help you make an important decision to pick the right man.

Days 26-30: Ask them to take you to visit their family. Meet their parents and siblings and make decision for the best man who is your boyfriend and a husband in the future.

That’s the secrets for a single Chinese woman to find a husband in 30 days.

Asian ladies & single guys: let’s find online dating here

The modern method of find a lover or even a life partner is the online dating. No doubt there are thousands of relationships and marriages generated through the Internet dating sites. Asian ladies find single guys using the online dating method has become a phenomenon nowadays. So, I write this post to help all Asian women and single men on the world find each other here by posting your personal information on the comment box below.

Asian lady online

Asian lady online

I noticed that Asian ladies love Navy men, especially Thai, Korean, Chinese and Filipinas. It does not matter how old you are, you can get a Thai and Filipina lady for marriage if you are a military man. It maybe the benefit from the government that will take care of them once they are pregnant and have babies.

White men are the first priority!

Especially, white me who live in the United States of America, Canada, Australia and the United Kingdom are great from the view of Asian women. They look cool, tall, strong, work hard, and are great husbands. They treat women with respects, honor and common decency.

If you are a white man who walk on Bangkok, Thailand or Manila, Philippines, then you get all the attention from girls. They come to you and talk so you don’t have to make the first move. You can pick the best one from many available. Many local Asian guys are envy from you guys because they are not that tall and white as you are.

Asian ladies are worth a marriage!

Some white women keep questioning about why white guys marry Asian ladies. To answer this question honestly, “Asian ladies take much better care of their husbands than white women do”. They can sacrifice their personal things for their husbands. You can read this post here to learn why Asian women are better than white women in terms of marriage.

Unless you meet a woman at a club, she may dig your money, otherwise, you’ll enjoy the proud of the husband’s role. You may think that Asian ladies want you because of the Visa? Some are true and some are not. You must think about mutual benefits. You get a good young wife and she get a better future in a developed country. Some people think the most reason Asian women marry white men is the finance. Al right, that’s true. Who else doesn’t want to live in a great country as America, Canada, UK, or Australia?

Asian women have pride about their own countries. When they come to the West, they always think about their hometown. They are proud of themselves about being an Asian. They think they are the most stunning women on the world because of their beautiful face with small and skinny body.

Why do single men in the West find Asian wives?

Asian ladies n Single men online

Asian ladies n Single men online

I wrote some articles about why Western men marry Asian wives. There are some reasons to make single ladies who live in Asia understand clearly.

  1. Most of these foreign men couldn’t marry a woman in their own country. They are poor. They live on a welfare money from the government so they can’t afford to get a white lady. They are rejected by white ladies in their hometown.
  2. They dislike to marry a woman in a first world country after the divorce. They can’t stand on a hard-head wife anymore.
  3. They like to marry a young and sexy Asian wife. They like to find a simple wife so they are less headache.
  4. They like to be treated as a husband. They want to act as a husband to the wife. They want to marry a wondering caring woman.

Therefore, both Asian ladies and foreign single men find online dating the most appropriate method because there is a match between each other. They are matched so they come to find each other online. There are mutual benefits from both. If you are one of these single ladies or guys, then please post your personal information below let others know and start dating online.

Some of the information you can write are your name, location, gender, race, careers, age, likes, dislikes, hobby, what type of person you are seeking, introduction, email address, and so on (please don’t write your telephone here).

Why Do Young Asian Girls Marry Foreigners

There are thousands of Asian girls dating and marrying foreigners. They are either in Asia or in the West. Some reasons I like to briefly point out about why many of Asian women prefer to marry foreign husbands. We use the term “girls” is because most unmarried Asian ladies prefer to be called “girls” instead of “women” or “ladies”. However, in this article we use each term interchangeably. Also, we mean about foreigners are those Native men who live in any specific country.

Asian girls

Asian girls

The power of money & opportunities

This is only true for those who live in poor condition. In the Philippines, Cambodia, China, Vietnam, India, Pakistan, some young girls are willing to marry old foreigners because of material comfort. They earn a few US bucks a day and most of them have many young siblings to take care of. So, they must accept to marry old foreign husbands to save their parents and help their siblings from a life in extreme poverty. Most of them consider this as their greatest duty.

If they are sponsored to the West, then they can work and full fill their material needs. In an developed country, most people can work and make big money compared to what they do in their hometown.

In the West including America, Australia, Canada, UK and others, Asian women marry foreigners because of love and romance, not the material thing. They live in the West so they can make money as much as any Native local citizen. Some of them love foreigner men is because of traits and characteristics, just like many Asian women date and marry Asian men.

Get rid of their own race

Some Asian girls want to get rid of their own race. They like to marry Caucasian men to have beautiful children. They don’t like their future kids to be Asian-like, with slanting and tiny eyes with skin on the eyelids turns outwards which makes it hardly open. Don’t hate me about this, guys. Some of my Chinese friends have said that to me. Anyway, they try to escape from their own race and culture.

The past relationships & marriages

Asian men care about their partner’s past relationships and marriages. When a woman gets married with a man, she usually does not want him to remind her last partners.

One of my friends have said to me that her husband usually tells about her past relationship every time they have an argument, something like “you’re stubborn and hard-head so your last husband divorced you”.

Western men usually don’t care much about their partner’s past relationships. They usually don’t hurt their partners by reminding about the last partners. Western husbands usually talk sweeter and more polite voices to their wife than Asian guys do. Foreign men don’t care about the past.

True love

This is the most obvious reason that Asian girls and foreign men come together and develop a relationship based on true love. They love the man because of his gentle and sweet things. She loves him and to be loved by him.

So, young Asian girls marry foreigner men because of many reasons as listed above.

What do you thing about these reasons?

Do we miss anything?

To prove this, you can view thousands of Asian girls who live in Asia and in the US, Australia, Canada and UK signed up at our free dating site at Asiandatenet.com to look for foreign men.

Chinese Women in Mainland China and Hong Kong about Dating & Marriage

Chinese women in Mainland is different from women in Hong Kong. They are both Chinese but the way they act and live are not the same. There are some things you should know about these same race but act differently because they live in two different regions of China. This article will briefly explain the reasons they are different in terms of dating, relationship and marriage.

Mainland woman vs Hong Kong woman in China

Mainland woman vs Hong Kong woman in China

Many Chinese women flock to Hong Kong to give birth every week, month and year. Hong Kongers are more modernized and independent than Chinese women. They work and take care of themselves and their family. Most Chinese wives stay home to take care of their kids while Hong Kong women go to work even after they have babies.

Hong Kong people always complain about how impolite Chinese women are when they come to Hong Kong, such as spit, cut in line, loud talk and other not-right public behavior standards. They were born and raised from a great country of Asia so they treat others with more modernized ways. Chinese ladies are from China so they get used to the low standards of public behavior which make them look funny in front of women in Hong Kong.

Almost every thing in Hong Kong is far better than in China, including education, economic, medical care, society and so on. No wondering why about 40% of Chinese pregnant women flock to Hong Kong to give birth in order to get the permanent residency in this region of China. When the children have this right, they have free education from 1st grade until 12th grade (High School graduation). Generally speaking, many Chinese women pursue the dream of marrying a man in Hong Kong. There are other benefits of being a Hong Konger that you can’t find as being a Chinese.

Every year, there are about 25 millions of Chinese men and women came to Hong Kong for working. Especially, pregnant women in China come to this country to give birth and get the right for permanent residency. This is one of the reasons rate Chinese are a low class.

In terms of dating and marriage, most Chinese single women just look for men in Hong Kong. Mainland girls think that getting married with a man in Hong Kong (HK) is like “winning a lottery”. In fact, there are thousands of young Chinese girls accept to get married with old men in HK. When they get to this country and obtained a permanent residency, they file a divorce. This happens and keep happening but many old and poor single men in Hong Kong are still interested in young Chinese wife in China.

For those Mainland ladies who already lived in HK, they are certainly looking for educated men in this country. They are not seeking Mainland men in HK, unless these guys are high educated and successful in business.

Generally speaking, women in HK set with high standards in terms of marriage. Most uneducated men are not their type. They are educated and successful women so they are looking for men who match with their standards. Therefore, many low-educated or poor men in HK must go for single women in Mainland or other countries like Philippines or Vietnam.

There are many of Chinese women in China and Hong Kong signed up their profiles to look for single men at Asiandatenet.com. Chinese women in Mainland and Hong Kong are different in terms of dating and marriage because they are born and raised in two different regions of China.

To all foreign Asian singles in US, how to find love online?

Living in the United States of America (USA), Asian singles have a hard time to find their life partner. It is because the shortage of Asian people who are single in this country. Asian Americans are totaled about 5% of the entire American population. There are about 320,000,000 (320 millions) of American people in this country. Chinese, Indian, Filipino, Vietnamese, Korean, Japanese, Pakistani and Cambodian are the most crowded of popular in the US.

Asian American women

Asian American women

Asian Americans work hard to adapt with fast-paced lifestyle in this country. We don’t have much time to go out in flirting or get acquainted with others. Some people like to date or marry only on their own race so the chance is even harder. As I mentioned above, there are not many Asian singles to choose from. So, thousands of Asian single women and men use online dating sites like Asiandatenet.com or others to find love online. This is one of the most effective modern way to find a date nowadays.

The online dating service has become the modern method for every single Asian person who lives in the US. It is simple and easy. You sign up a profile and find whoever you like to meet with. The internet dating has endless possibilities that you can find a perfect match near you or those who live in another city or State. By clicking a few times, there are many Asian American girls and guys showing up in front of you and you only need to view each profile to go from there.

The first thing to find love online is to decide which dating site you build a profile with. Can you afford to pay about $30 or $50 a month? Then, you can go to paid services like Match.com, Chemistry.com, and so on. If you just want to try out a free site, then you can use Asiandatenet.com, Plentyoffish (POF), Okcupid, etc. It is up to you to choose which type of online dating sites you will register a personal ad with.

There are many Asian American singles just like you waiting to greet you online. In the old days, people like to gather in a bar or club to find short-term dates. However, Asian girls or guys don’t like to get married with people they meet at clubs or bars. This is the problem. Most singles at these places just try to have fun and they are not serious in building a lifelong relationship. Online dating services let you read each profile before you contact so you may know more than 50% of their characteristics before you contact.

Many Asian American men at Asiandatenet are open to single ladies back home as well. At online dating sites, you can find whoever you like to meet with. There is no limit. I have found a girlfriend at Asiandatenet.com last year and we have a nice relationship. She lives in Houston Texas where I live in Miami Florida. Love can make shorter distance. No joking but it is true.

If you are foreign Asian singles who live in America, then you should not be single. Don’t feel ashamed of yourself in seeking love online. All people have at least once in their lifetime tried online dating. There are thousands of happy relationships and marriages generated from the Asian dating services every year.

Don’t worry about that. Being single is a failure in life. America’s lifestyle is fast-paced which makes millions of Asians can’t find a date or relationship. Try 100% free dating service and find that special someone today. Have fun!

Vietnamese Mail Order Brides in China, Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan & South Korea

Vietnamese mail order brides in China, Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan & South Korea have been talking a lot lately because it resulted many miserable relationships. Nowadays such Vietnam’s mail order bride business is booming in this country because many Vietnamese girls (especially those who live in the countryside) still dream to marry a foreign husband. I use women, ladies and girls across this article because some unmarried women in Viet Nam don’t like to be called “women”.

Vietnamese mail order brides weddings

Vietnamese mail order brides weddings

Look at this advertisement in Vietnam, “She is a virgin, fixed price, marry her in a few months, you’ll get a new bride if she runs away from you”. Do they consider a human being as an item for sale?

Vietnamese women wait every minute, hour and day for her opportunity to meet a prospective foreign husband.

Why are they interested to get marry with a foreign husband that much?

Vietnamese Mail Order Bride Ad

Vietnamese Mail Order Bride Ad

It is the power of money. Most of Vietnamese girls who want to marry a Chinese, Singaporean, Malaysian, Taiwanese and Korean husband are poor. They don’t see a bright future in Vietnam. They want to help their parents and siblings so the only way is to get married with a foreign man. However, if there is a demand, then there is a supply. If you go to some mail order brides agencies or brokers in China, Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan & South Korea, you will notice some silly ads like “She is a virgin, $4,000, fixed price” or “Vietnamese women, select a bride, travel to Vietnam, get married, $4,500″ and etc. That means foreign men can go to Viet Nam, choose the bride and get married with her for that amount of money. The bride can get about 75% of that money from her bride-groom and the 25% go to the brokers.

Most of these Vietnamese women come from poor rural villages, have less knowledge and low education. They favor the opportunity to live abroad so they take the risk to marry a foreign husband. They think getting married with a man overseas is the best option because they have money to support their family and help their siblings. As a result, many marriages turn out miserably. Many Vietnamese wives are beaten up, used as a sex slave, murdered by their husbands.

There is no strict rules to prevent such marriages because these Vietnamese ladies marry foreign husbands voluntarily. The language barrier is the main problem. They don’t have knowledge about living abroad in a new country. They think getting married with a husband oversea and making money in a new country is easy. They don’t have a choice.

Most of foreign men marrying single Vietnamese girls are farmers and fishermen who can’t find a wife in their local area. They are left behind by local girls so they have to find a Vietnamese wife who is simple so they can control her.

However, there are some marriages work out very well. There are some successful Vietnamese women who got married with foreign men.

I recommend both Vietnamese girls and foreign men should not get married with each other by the marriage agencies. You guys can find each other at online dating sites like Asiandatenet.com or other free Asian date websites. You can find your life mate in Vietnam, China, Singapore, Malaysia, Taiwan & South Korea by yourself without going through mail order brides services.

Why are Western Men (especially White Expats) Popular in Asia?

Western men, especially White Expats, get a lot of attention from Asian girls in China, Japan, Singapore, North Korea, Indonesia, Vietnam, Thailand, Malaysia, Hong Kong, Philippines, and etc. They just walk on the road, doing nothing, and get all attention from local Asian women there. What’s wrong with these ladies?¬†

We use terms like White Expats, foreign men, Western guys respectively on this article. They mean the same thing. Only some women call this while others call another name.

Western men & Asian ladies

Western men & Asian ladies

Why do they treat these White foreign men that favor?

I have an Australian friend who lived in China for a few months. He found a Chinese girlfriend the first week. He said he didn’t do anything but she just came to him and started talking when he was walking in front of a food market. He just speaks English as a Native language and he is tall and white. No one knows he was laid off and have not found a job yet. He got all attention from local single women in China for just being a tall and White Expat. There are many Asian girls seeking American or other Western guys for marriage these days.

White foreign men are very popular in Asia because they were born and raised in greatest countries on the world. They are white, tall and sexy so most Asian ladies look at them with respects. No, this is the truth. If you are a Western man walking in China or the Philippines or other countries, then you will see how you are impressed by local Asian women over there. When you go to a bar, oh no, you’ll get all girls approach to make acquainted with you.

There are some advantages that White Expats have to attract local single Asian ladies:

  1. Asian women are friendly towards Western men, especially Caucasians. They are very kind and polite to treat tourists and expats who are from the Western countries like America, Australia, Italy, Germany, UK, Canada and so on.
  2. Most Western men are strongly in bed which is one of the favorites of some Asian women that you need to unleash it. Local Asian men will be rejected by small size. Some of single women in Asia have a wild sexual desires hidden in them, you are a white man so you will opt to unleash it.
  3. A White Western man is considered as a “winning lottery” for an Asian woman. Many local women are living in poor economic condition so they want to marry with a White Expat to have better financial situation. Sometimes this turns out untrue because some Western guys are very poor.
  4. Most White Expats are good people. This is true. They travel to Asia to have fun so they don’t want to cause troubles in a foreign country.
  5. Caucasians treat women with respects and honor. Asian ladies think about this and it seems to be right. When they were born and raised in the West where strict rules are applied towards violence to women, so most of these guys never hit on their woman, no matter what.
  6. When an Asian lady introduces her boyfriend or husband as a White foreign man to her parents, relatives or friends, she is judged as the utmost respects and talent.

There are more reasons why Western guys too popular in Asia. However, I have to say one bad side about a few guys who come to Asia and cheat on naive Asian women. Don’t do that. You guys have all advantages that local men don’t. Most Asian women are raised by traditional custom, one-woman-one-man, you shouldn’t hurt their feelings by cheating on them. So, Western men, especially white Expats are popular in Asia because they are viewed as the dream husbands for Asian women.