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Dating & Marriage Advice For Filipina Ladies in the Philippines

You are amongst the single Filipina ladies in the Philippines who dream about dating or marrying a man who lives in the US, Canada, Australia, France, Italy, Poland, UK, and so on. When you meet and chat with a guy through an Asian dating site, you have no idea what his current marital status as well as general background like finance, career, interests, hobby and etc. You are taking a risk to see him and marry him. So, I am writing one article to list some tips and advice for you to consider before making the utmost important decision for you life.

Filipina ladies & Western men

Filipina ladies & Western men (Trobicalmba)

I live in America so I know it is easy to find a single woman here. What you need to do is to walk up to a lady you like and start talking. You can find out later whether she has a crush on you or not. Another way is to find a girl in a bar or club, guys can use the same method to approach to a lady. That’s simple to find a date in the United States. However, getting a date is completely different from building a relationship and getting married. Dating and marriage are the long and difficult stage that many men failed to do so.

Most single Western men who joined free online dating service like Asiandatenet.com or others to look for Filipino women are above 35 years old. You hardly find a 20-year-old American man who joined a dating website to find a foreign wife. And, you know what? These men just look for young single, widow or divorced women in the Philippines or other Asian countries for marriage. As I mentioned above, they can find a date in America but they want a young and beautiful girl so that’s why they are interested in you.

Do you think you are prettier and sexier than Native American women?

These American men think Filipina ladies are more beautiful and sexier than American women. As you know more than 75% American ladies who turn to 35 and up are fat. It does not matter if they don’t mind to date or marry a big woman. Most of these guys are not interested in dating a fat lady so they want to look for a Filipina wife. I am a Filipino man so I know exactly how the Filipinas look like. Most of us, from teen girls to middle aged women, are slim, attractive and sweet. Another advantage is that most American men don’t pay attention whether you are in low, middle or high class. What they are looking for is the sweet woman for marriage.

Western men are strongly in bed which is a good thing that attracts the women. Many American women usually give their men “cold shoulder” when they are in bad mood. You are Asian. You have this excellent and special trait about treating and respecting your husband, which most men like it, never give him a cold shoulder, even when you are in bad mood. This is very important in the marriage so you know how to treat a husband to make sure he is happy and satisfied.

We Filipinas are family oriented and we work hard to help our family. We don’t tend to depend on others to help us but work to make money and live dependently. We always help our husbands to build up a good family and take good care of our children. However, Filipino men in the Philippines don’t treat us right. There are many domestic violence in here that make us scared to date a local man. In fact, as we have seen many bad relationships between local Filipino men and women here. Oh God, 80% of local men get women pregnant and “gone with the wind”. That’s scary for all of us. We love Western men because they are more responsible than local Filipino guys.

Every year, there are thousands of successful marriages between Filipina ladies with Western guys. In America, statistics showed that thousands of Visas of new Filipina brides who come to this country every year. If you first meet a Western man in person or online, then don’t talk about money. We are popular in the West because of our sweet, loyal and family oriented characteristics. Don’t let him think us like gold diggers so never ask for money from him if you want to have a long term relationship that leads to marriage.

Why are Old Chinese Men the Ideal Husbands for Single Women in China?

If you ask a Chinese woman about the ideal husband she wants to marry, then the answer will be the middle-aged man who is around 40 years old, successful in life, as well as who have a car and a house. A divorced Chinese man is the more preferable husband than a single man toward women in China in terms of choosing the best husband. Most of old men have male traits that young men don’t have. However, there are many unmarried ladies in this country because of these picky choice. They are “lelftover” or shang nu women who are over 28 years old and unmarried.

Old Chinese man and young woman

Old Chinese man and young woman

It is hard to find such a man who is available in China. If they are 40 and successful, then most of them are married. However, they usually have love affairs with other young women. This is another issue that single ladies are afraid of. Since Chinese girls set high standards on seeking a husband, most of them are still not married. So they have to sign up their personal ads through online dating services in China to find such a good husband. They’d rather stay single but don’t want to marry a “bad” man. From these Chinese dating sites, they are in hope to find a middle-aged man who owns a house and have a car so they are good taken care of.

Again, it is not easy to find such men in China. Most of single ladies also look for Chinese men who live in the West. This is an easier way. Nowadays, there are many single old Chinese American, Australian, Canadian men who are single and looking for a wife back home. I have to define Chinese men who live in USA, Australia, Canada, France and others so you can understand more about them. They are immigrants along with their descendants from Mainland China, Hong Kong, Macau, Taiwan, and others. Most of these guys have a hard time to find a young Chinese wife in the West so they are looking for in their hometown. This is the excellent choice for single young women back home because they are perfectly matched.

Chinese girls want to have security in life. They want to live with a man who can take care of them on safety about finance. In China, most single women are adviced to stay away from Phoenix men who discriminate and strictly choose the future wife. They are the guys who try hard in life for succeed in career so they don’t get married with less qualified than them. If a lady is not rich, then she won’t be qualified for the phoenix men.

Single girls in China have traditional thoughts about marriage. They think marriage as a lifetime commitment so divorce is shameful for the family. People have tie family relationship so they want to find a husband for life. That’s why they are looking for an old and success husbands. If you search for a Chinese single lady in China and drop her a message and you are the same or older than her 5 years old, then you won’t get a reply from her. She thinks that you are not matured enough for her. This is the reason that most young Chinese single women seeking a husband who is at least 10 years older than them.

Finally, I personally think that Chinese women have a hard time in choosing a marriage partner. There are many difficult standards they set about the husband that are getting married in the future. I suggest that single Chinese girls should use the internet dating sites to help them find such a man. Don’t just rely on introductions from relatives or friends, they must take action to find their dream husband. Age is getting older, you know?

So, old Chinese men are the ideal husbands for single, divorced or widow women in China because of their secured financial status and materials.

Asian Women Have No Option To Marry An Oversea Husband

If an Asian woman could marry a good man in Asia, then she will not find a foreign husband in America, Europe or Australia. In most of developing Asian nations like the Philippines, China, Vietnam, Cambodia, Thailand, there is class distinction between the poor and the rich people. The rich class usually won’t marry the poor class. It is too hard for poor people to move up in a society. Most of the rich people have good connection with the government so they can work and succeed in their business.

Asian wife & husband at Christmas party

Asian wife & husband at Christmas party

The poor Asian women usually find other ways to move up and get rich, especially marry an oversea spouse to immigrate to the West so they can work and make good money. Every year, there are more than 3,000 Vietnamese brides who come to the United States by marriage sponsor from their husbands. Most of these husbands are Vietnamese Americans or Viet Kieu USA who came back to their hometown and married these girls. In the Philippines, the number of marriages between Filipino men who live in the West (Pinoy) and local Filipina ladies are higher than the number of Vietnamese ladies who married Viet Kieu. Most of these women are below-averaged class who want to move up. Of course, Chinese brides who come to the US through marriage sponsor are the most.

There are some good and bad stories between these marriages. Many young Asian women are willing to accept the old husband whose age around their father’s age. Some beautiful and sexy single women in Asia accept ugly and old Asian men who live in the West because their goal is to come to the West to live. After they come to the USA, Canada, Australia or other European countries and became the permanent resident, they file a divorce. I think about 30% of such marriages are broken after they came to the new nation. Another reason is that most Asian men come back to their hometown and just marry beautiful and young girls so they are matched from the public point of view.

Back to our topic, most of Asian girls can’t find a good man there. If she could find a good husband in Asia, then she won’t leave the country. A good man can be defined as a man who love her and can help her family. In this case, she has a hard time to find that man because most of higher classes of men won’t marry the poor ladies. Most of these rich men think the poor women are gold-diggers so they won’t marry them. They want to find the wife whose is similar to theirs about material things. This is another reason that Asian ladies have no option but find a husband oversea.

An Asian woman is seeking a foreign husband who can help her parents and siblings. There is no way she can find such a good man in Asia who can do that. She must immigrate to a developed country so she can work and make money to help her parents, brothers and sisters. There are some husbands of these Asian women must send money to support their wife’s family back home on a monthly basis. Also, these Asian women come to the West try to make money and send back home to help their family as well.

Domestic violence is another reason that Asian women want to get married overseas. Low class men who are not educated usually treat women badly. They don’t have any respect for their wife. They control their wife too much. They get drunk almost every day. They can beat the wife if she dares to talk or argue with them. There are many such men in Asia. Most of Asian women are scared to get married by such guys.

On social networking sites like Facebook, Twitter, Google Plus and online dating sites like Asiandatenet, Asiandating or others, there are millions of single women looking for oversea men. They are seeking Asian men who live in America, Canada, Australia, Germany, Italy, France, and other European men. I personally think Asian women are going on the right track to find a husband oversea.

Why are Western Men (especially White Expats) Popular in Asia?

Western men, especially White Expats, get a lot of attention from Asian girls in China, Japan, Singapore, North Korea, Indonesia, Vietnam, Thailand, Malaysia, Hong Kong, Philippines, and etc. They just walk on the road, doing nothing, and get all attention from local Asian women there. What’s wrong with these ladies? 

We use terms like White Expats, foreign men, Western guys respectively on this article. They mean the same thing. Only some women call this while others call another name.

Western men & Asian ladies

Western men & Asian ladies

Why do they treat these White foreign men that favor?

I have an Australian friend who lived in China for a few months. He found a Chinese girlfriend the first week. He said he didn’t do anything but she just came to him and started talking when he was walking in front of a food market. He just speaks English as a Native language and he is tall and white. No one knows he was laid off and have not found a job yet. He got all attention from local single women in China for just being a tall and White Expat. There are many Asian girls seeking American or other Western guys for marriage these days.

White foreign men are very popular in Asia because they were born and raised in greatest countries on the world. They are white, tall and sexy so most Asian ladies look at them with respects. No, this is the truth. If you are a Western man walking in China or the Philippines or other countries, then you will see how you are impressed by local Asian women over there. When you go to a bar, oh no, you’ll get all girls approach to make acquainted with you.

There are some advantages that White Expats have to attract local single Asian ladies:

  1. Asian women are friendly towards Western men, especially Caucasians. They are very kind and polite to treat tourists and expats who are from the Western countries like America, Australia, Italy, Germany, UK, Canada and so on.
  2. Most Western men are strongly in bed which is one of the favorites of some Asian women that you need to unleash it. Local Asian men will be rejected by small size. Some of single women in Asia have a wild sexual desires hidden in them, you are a white man so you will opt to unleash it.
  3. A White Western man is considered as a “winning lottery” for an Asian woman. Many local women are living in poor economic condition so they want to marry with a White Expat to have better financial situation. Sometimes this turns out untrue because some Western guys are very poor.
  4. Most White Expats are good people. This is true. They travel to Asia to have fun so they don’t want to cause troubles in a foreign country.
  5. Caucasians treat women with respects and honor. Asian ladies think about this and it seems to be right. When they were born and raised in the West where strict rules are applied towards violence to women, so most of these guys never hit on their woman, no matter what.
  6. When an Asian lady introduces her boyfriend or husband as a White foreign man to her parents, relatives or friends, she is judged as the utmost respects and talent.

There are more reasons why Western guys too popular in Asia. However, I have to say one bad side about a few guys who come to Asia and cheat on naive Asian women. Don’t do that. You guys have all advantages that local men don’t. Most Asian women are raised by traditional custom, one-woman-one-man, you shouldn’t hurt their feelings by cheating on them. So, Western men, especially white Expats are popular in Asia because they are viewed as the dream husbands for Asian women.

Why Are Single Men In South Korea Looking For For International Brides?

South Korean men are looking for foreign brides including Filipina, Vietnamese, Thai and so on because of the shifting demographics in the last few years. Many middle-aged men are left behind so they must look for international brides for marriage. There are also international workers from poor countries like Mongolia, Vietnam, Thailand, and Philippines who come to work in South Korea, got married with Korean men.

Korean men international brides

Korean men international brides (Photo from NYtimes)

Seoul is the most popular city in South Korea that thousands of middle-aged men have a hard time to find a wife. Most of these guys are old and poor, some of them are divorced and some are still single. Single women here don’t look at them and they are looking for better one. In the big cities, most women set their high standards on career. The men who are “low” in education or career are left behind so they have to look for oversea brides. Many South Korean women seeking American men for marriage nowadays.

Another reason that South Korean men are seeking foreign brides is that they like to have “young” and “virgin” women. They want to have babies with young international women. Some of them marry a foreign wife to have babies and take care of their elderly or sick parents. In this country, there are some marriage brokers or services that advertise international brides as an item for sale. These brokers and services usually have an international connection with the people over there who can help to find poor and young women for old men in South Korea. There are many painfully miserable results for such marriages of a young international woman with an old Korean man. The language barrier is also an issue. I have to conclude that such marriages are “no love” at the beginning. Many of those marriages don’t turn out well as we have read from reported incidents of violence.

Every year, there are more than 40,000 Koreans marrying foreign brides and the numbers are expected to continue increasing in the next few years. There are an increase in unhappy marriages between old Korean husbands and young foreign wives.

Why do these foreign women accept such old men in South Korea?

Escaping poverty is the main reason. These international women are often motivated by the desire to make good money in South Korea. They accept old Korean husbands just because they can work to make money to help their family back home. This is the reason many “naive” foreign women deal with huge cultural and language barriers in this country. Many of them became the sex slaves of the husband.

Why do South Korean men marry foreign brides?

There are many benefits that Korean men marry foreign ladies. Most of these oversea women are less picky than local women about financial and social status of their husbands. Local women pay attention to the education background and the career of their future husbands so poor and “low” standard Korean men can’t stand a chance. Old Korean men believe that foreign women are submissive so they take the lead of the family.

In reality, both single men and women in South Korea are having a tough time searching spouses. The woman is more selective when it comes to find a man because of her high standards in education, financial and social background. It is hard for a lady seeking a man who meets her expectations. This ends up many men go for foreign brides.

Why do Asian women find richer & smarter men than them to marry?

Asian women usually find rich men to marry. There are some reasons behind this. The cultural custom is the main thing. Traditionally speaking, Asian ladies choose guys for marriage who must be wealthier than them. In fact, most of Asian women are submissive and men are dominant. So, they like to find a man who is higher or more knowledge than them about education level, background, understanding and so on. Most importantly, money is the main thing.

Asian women

They find a big difference between marrying a rich man or a poor man. A rich man can provide a great lifestyle including material needs. A poor man can’t give their wife the material things in life. They have to take care their poor husbands, which most Asian ladies don’t want to do so. Love is one thing but marriage is different. Dating is different and living together is a big different. Most of Asian girls want to respect their husbands and be submissive to their husbands. In order to do that, their husbands must be on the higher educated and richer than them, certainly.

You have seen many Asian wives who have a high-school degree married guys who have bachelor or even master degree in education. There are many college girls who just look for men who graduated a few years ago, and so on. That means they usually find husbands who are better than them in everything. They are different from American couples that use different bank accounts after marriage. The wife uses her own account and the husband uses his own bank account. Most of Asian couples use the same bank account.

Asian ladies look for wealthier men than them because that’s the traditional custom in Asia origins. The husbands are the ones who go out and make money to support the family while the wives stay home to take care of children and house errands. On this century, there are millions of Asian women who have been born in the Western countries like America, Canada, Australia etc, they are still nurtured this traditional custom from their parents or grand-parents. Even though most of these ladies today work full time, they still want to seek a husband who is richer, smarter than them.

In the Western countries, thousands of Asian women who work in a restaurants, shopping centers, nail or barber shops and so on, looking for men who are like software engineers or other IT field. If you are a a barber, then it is hard to find a girl in this field. Most of single Asian women are looking for a richer and smarter man than them for marriage at Asian online dating services or at a bar or any other public places. I am sorry, guys, that’s the true.

Why do Korean Women Find American Men A Phenomenon today?

It is no doubt that thousands of Korean women looking for American men online, which is a well-known phenomenon in the last few years. There are a few thousands of Korean brides who come to this country every year. 

Most of these ladies are from South Korea, which is the north east of Asia. Some of them got married with Korean American men who have lived in the US for a long time. A few of them even got married with Native Americans. Some of these ladies know their husbands through introduction from friends or family as well as relatives while some of them use online Korean dating services to know their men.

Korean Woman Looking For American Men

Korean Woman Looking For American Men

The reason that these single Korean women seeking American husbands is because they are attracted by the power and prestige of the US country. Even though Korea is a country that people can get good job and career, the United States of America is more attracted to these ladies. So, they like to get married with men in America. Most of these Korean men live in the US for a long time, but they prefer to get married with local girls in their hometown because these ladies usually are more traditional than Korean American girls. That’s what they think, you know?

You can find many Korean mail order brides through marriage agencies. However, I suggest you use free Korean dating sites to find them. You don’t pay nothing for using the service to find a girl, you know? Why do you have to pay for love? Love is supposed to be free.

All single Korean women seeking men in America are mature and sincere. They are serious about finding a life partner online. So, to find a girl for marriage, you must be honest. To tell you the truth, they are ready for a marriage, how about you? Of course, they are still looking for the right one. If you are a Korean man who lives in the US for a long time and who are interested in marrying a local girl in Korea, then take action to find her online today. Thousands of single Korean women looking for American husbands are waiting online to meet you.

Why do Japanese Women Go For American Men?

Nowadays there are an increasing number of Japanese women looking for single American husbands. Especially, online dating sites have thousands of Japanese female profiles that seek men in US. Is this a gamble for these ladies in Japan?

No, it is not a gamble but is a careful thought before they make their personal profiles online to find a perfect man in the United States of America. The most important reason is that these guys are different from Japanese guys. American men usually treat their wives in a better manner, respect and love them more, especially they appreciate their wife’s career even after they have children.

Japanese women looking for single American husbands

Japanese women looking for single American husbands

I have to admit one thing about Japanese guys. I am one of them so I know exactly how they are. Most of men in Japan don’t treat their wives as equal as American men do. You know what? Men in USA don’t treat their wives as maids, you know what I am saying? So, this is one of the most important reasons that they are looking for Japanese American men or even native men in America. You can check at Asian dating sites like asiandatenet.com for Japanese single girls who have good education background, good career etc. The whole point is that they don’t want to be a housewife after marriage, as men in Japan expect from their wife.

Every year, large dating sites have hundreds or thousands of couples connected each other. They travel to the US to meet their special someone whom they meet from these matchmaking sites. Every year, there is about 5% of Japanese singles marrying foreigners. So, online dating services have helped millions of single Japanese men and women to find their partner overseas. Japanese girls are looking for American husbands in the US is common these days.

Another reason is that most Japanese guys work too hard. They don’t have time to play with their family, no play, no fun and no good. I mean, a hard working man is good but not great. He needs to know how to balance work and play so your family is perfect. They don’t have to spend time with their friends, but their wife and children.

American men usually use sweet words with their wife, “you are pretty”, “I love you” etc. They even say that every time they talk to their wife. Only a few words to say them out, however, most Japanese men have hard time to say that. Come on guys, learn how to say that to your lady. “I love you” is so easy to say and it helps you a lot. Just say it out loud because she wants to hear it from you. I know some Japanese guys never say that word, “I love you”, after marriage.

Another reason that American men are getting good points is that they admit what they do wrong. “I am sorry, honey” is the words that they say every time they do something wrong. You know what? They apologize when they make mistakes because they want to take responsibility for what they do. However, some Japanese men can’t say these two words “I’m sorry” to their wives. That’s sad.

There are other reasons that Japanese women prefer from American men. American guys know what their wife want to fulfill their needs. The other thing is the romantic moments that they usually do to their wife. They never forget to give gifts to their wife on the special days like birthday, Christmas, New Year etc. The last reason is that American men usually try to be “bad boys” in bed. Most Japanese women like “bad boys” in bed, you know what I mean? So, Japanese women looking for American men for marriage is based on these above reasons.

Is it popular about Filipino Women Seek Men in America for marriage?

Filipino Women Looking For American Men for marriage have been too popular in the last few years. Nowadays, there are thousands Filipino women looking for husbands in USA. There is a mutual benefits of such couples. A Filipino girl can get married with an American husband while the man can get a beautiful and loyal wife. Both come together online and get married with each other. I have seen many Filipino-American couples in my neighborhood and they look fantastic to each other. Especially, their children are so beautiful and lovely.

Filipina woman seeking American man

Filipina woman seeking American man

Why are single Filipino women looking for American husbands?

Finance is the first key factor. In Philippines, Filipinas don’t have good job to work and take care of the family. These Filipino women seeking foreign men in USA to have a chance to come to this country to work and make money. As you know that America is a dream land of opportunities. If you are a talented person, then you will get rich over here. This is true. Many of my friends can make from $2,000 to $4,000 a month. In Philippines, Filipinos can’t make this much. When Filipino brides come to this country, they can make money to take care of themselves and also help their family in Philippines.

Unfaithful husband is the second reason. In this culture, many men have cheated on their wives, which is not uncommon. Thousands of Filipino wives must deal with infidelity husbands. So, they try to avoid the unfaithful men by marrying American men in USA.

Respect is the third reason. Filipino women think that American men treat the woman with respects. There are not as many abused relationships in America as that happened in Philippines. American husbands don’t hit their wives as men in Philippines.

I just listed three reasons why thousands of single Filipino women looking for husbands in USA. If you think there are some other reasons, then feel free to add them by writing on comments below. Thanks.

Why do Asian Girls Dream to live in the United States of America

Asian Girls in USA

Asian Girls in USA

Asian Girls dream to live in the United States of America. This is no doubt that there are thousands of Asian brides come to USA by getting married with Asian-American men. The USA is so appealing to thousands of single women in Asia because there is the freedom for women and men. That means they cannot find such gender freedom in their home countries. By learning from friends, relatives, or from books, they understand something about the equality between women and men in the United States of America. Thousands of single Asian women see the USA as a dream land they can live for the rest of their life ideally. They can make their dream come true. Therefore, thousands of single Asian girls are willing to get married with older husbands in America so they can come to this dream country.

As I mentioned above, one way that Asian girls come to USA is through the marriage with Asian-American husbands. There are other ways to get a chance to come to America. Education is one of the ways that Asian women come to USA. They have to apply for the college or universities in this country. When they get accepted, they are able to live in America until they graduate. This is a good change for many single Asian girls to find husbands in this dream land. They can stay here for at least four years. Within these four years, they can find Asian American men to get married so they can stay here permanently. There are many of these students who get married with Asian American guys and stay in this land of freedom.

The most common way that Asian Women come to the United States of America is through the marriage agencies. Asian mail order brides are those who sign up themselves online to look for Asian American husbands. There are many Asian American men prefer to choose women in Asia to be the wife. There are also Asian dating sites that offer the opportunities for girls in Asia to get acquainted with Asian men in USA. As you browse on Google, Yahoo, MSN for some keywords like ‘Asian dating sites’, ‘Asian girls for marriage’, ‘Asian women for dating’, etc, there are many good sites appear on these major search engines. These Asian dating sites are the solution that connect single Asian girls looking for men online.

In conclusion, single Asian girls dream to come to the United States of America to live because they think the USA is the land of gender freedom. They can make their dream come true in USA. They heard from friends or relatives that the USA is the land of opportunities so they can build up a bright future. So, there are thousands of single Asian women looking for men online through either Asian dating sites or mail order bride services. Many of single young Asian girls are willing to get married with older Asian American guys so they can come to this dream land. They can build a good future in USA which result in a bright future for their children and the next generations.

Anyway, single Asian girls come to USA through marriage agencies and education. Every year, there are thousands of thousands women in Asia come to the United States of America to live. Women in Asia think that the USA is the dream land.

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