Why Do Many Asian-American Men Have Tough Times To Find A Wife?

Asian-American are popular in the United States because they are more educated and wealthier. They value work, friendship and relationship, family and marriage more than native Americans. However, many of them have tough times to find a girlfriend or wife in their own race because of the shortage of Asian girls in the US. So, many single Asian men in America must use online dating sites to find a date around their city and some of them open to international women who live in Asia.

Asian American couple

Asian American couple

Statistics showed that more than 60% of Asians have a college degree. Most of Asian immigrants choose Information Technology major (IT) and some of them choose other majors. Asian-American men work hard during their college years to pay their tuition without asking help from their parents. After graduation from college, they work and earn high income. Many of them go to finish their master degree as well. Indian men are rated as the highest paying groups amongst Asians. There are other high paying groups of Asians including Chinese, Filipino, Vietnamese, Korean, and Japanese.

The first Asian generations who immigrated in America are refugees. Many of them escaped their home countries to come here as political refugees. Many of them are men which created the shortage of Asian females in America. In other words, Asian-American men outnumber Asian-American women in the US. If you go to an Asian club in New York or San Francisco, then you will see the reality about the shortage. The number of men is about 2/3 of women. I mean, Asian-American women have advantage to choose the best man but Asian-American men have disadvantage because of the shortage.

Many Asian-American men who have low paying jobs can’t even find a wife in the US. They work as waiters, food servers, cleaners, and so on. They can’t find an Asian girlfriend in this country. Because of the shortage of Asian females in America, most Asian women set high standards on the soul mate they are seeking. Some women work in low paying jobs still look for their life partners who work in high paying jobs. This is the truth. They look for men who have a Bachelor or Master degree. So, those guys who don’t have a college degree can’t find a girlfriend here. So they have to find single Asian women in their home country.

However, some Asian-American guys must find a girlfriend from another race. That’s why you can see Asian-Americans (AAS) dating White, Black and Hispanic women, which is a common thing in the US. Of course, if they are open to other races or native American women, then they have no problem in seeking a date. The problem is the size of Asian men is small so many of them don’t have enough confidence to date a White, Black or Hispanic girl. This is the problem that you hardly see Asian Male and White Woman in this country. Most Asian men are about 5’8 in height and most White girls are 5’8. Usually girls prefer to date men who are taller than them so they can wear high heels and look pretty. Another important issue that prevent Asian men from dating a White or Black lady is the “tool” size.

Asian-American man & woman

Asian-American man & woman

Asian-American guys are good. They have excellent traits about being a ideal husband. When they came to this country, many born here, learned good stuff about this culture, added to their original culture, which made them the perfect boyfriends or husbands. In other words, they know how to treat the woman with respects, value family and marriage, work hard, treat elders with respects, but they have hard time to find an ideal life mate. This is because of the shortage of Asian females in the US, not by their fault.

I am an Asian man who lives in Los Angeles, California, so I know how it is hard to find an Asian date here. I used to drive to the Chinatown or most of Asian markets to flirt with girls but couldn’t find one. I also went to all parties that my friends invited me there but couldn’t find one either. As I said, there are more men than women so the chance is rare. I finally joined an Asian date site and found one who lives in San Francisco.

Come on guys, don’t let American men marry all Asian girls. As you know, most Asian girls prefer to marry you over American guys. So, I recommend all Asian American single men out there, if you can’t find a date then you should try to sign up a profile at an online dating site for Asia people. Good luck!

Why do White men love Singaporean women so much?

Singaporean women are classy in the family but modernized at work. This is the main reason that white American, Australian or Canadian love women in Singapore that much. My friends admitted that once they date a Singaporean girl, they will never go back to date a white girl. Don’t think that I give too much compliments in Singaporean ladies but that’s true. Singaporean women are too popular on the world that many foreign men seeking and marrying them.

Singaporean woman n Christmas tree

Singaporean woman n Christmas tree

Singaporean women are high in education and they are independent. At the work place, they work hard. At the house, they become a good and sweet lady who knows how to treat their husband with respects. They don’t need “equality” in the family like most white women do. Singaporean ladies consider family relationship as a tie and lifelong commitment. They won’t divorce their husbands because of money related issues. Even if they get promoted at work or increased in salary, they treat their husbands the same.

Let’s talk about Singaporean ladies to see why white men fall on them. They are friendly and polite. They are independent but submissive. When you date a Singaporean girl, you know exactly what I am talking about on this article. The way she talks is so sweet, especially when she speaks English with an Asian accent and softness. When communicating with her, she doesn’t interrupt while you are talking. She waits until you finish talking to make judgmental opinions. She will ask you many questions about yourself, your interests, family, likes, hobby, but not your income. She drinks water instead of alcohol.

Singaporean ladies prefer to have healthy dates. If you are a foreign man who meets her in Singapore and ask her out for a date, then she will suggest you to go to a coffee shop, a restaurant, movie theaters, but she won’t ask you to take her to a club or bar. You may think Singaporean women are like classy women who don’t enjoy anything, who don’t know to have fun. Don’t try to get her on bed in the first date. Trust me on this, you will get rejected. Do respect her is the first thing. It’s not about Singaporean women don’t love sex, but they want to make sure you’re the right man for them. When you win her heart, she is yours for long.

Singapore woman at Christmas tree

Singapore woman at Christmas tree

There are many Western men who work in Singapore and admitted that Singaporean girls are the most beautiful women on the world. When you are on the Singapore airplane, you will see how beautiful Singaporean girls are by looking at the flight attendants with uniforms. They are so beautiful. Especially the way they speak English is just perfect. There are many single White men in US at our Asian dating site signed up to just looking for Singaporean women. Once they found the girl they like the most, they will travel to Singapore to meet her.

I visited most of Asian countries, including Japan, China, Malaysia, Indonesia, South Korea, Vietnam, Thailand, and the Philippines, I did observations on women from each country, Singapore women appear to be the most beautiful. They are smart, independent, beautiful and submissive. Filipina, Vietnamese, Chinese and Thai women are submissive but too much dependent on their men. Japanese women put too much makeup on their face. I conclude that  Singapore girls are the most beautiful girls on the world.

No wonder why White men love Singapore women so much because of all unique traits I mentioned above.

Things To Be Prepared Before Coming To The United States Of America

Congratulations to you that you have finally completed the complexities of the immigration process and now it is time to prepare all things you need before coming to the greatest country of the world. Whether you immigrate to the US by meeting and marrying an American husband or by other Visa types, you come to the right track. This article will briefly explain about what to be prepared before you immigrate to America. If you live in developing countries such as China, Malaysia, Indonesia, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Hong Kong, South Korea, Philippines, India, Pakistan, Iran, Iraq, and etc then you will experience the big difference when you come to the US.

Asian woman in Singapore Airplane

Asian woman in Singapore Airplane

America is the greatest country so you will see a big difference. If you immigrate to other developed countries like Canada, Australia, France, UK and etc, then you will the differences as well. Yes, there are many differences you need to prepare first.

  1. Buy warm clothes is a must if you immigrate to the cold US states such as Alaska, Colorado, North Dakota, Wyoming, Maine, Michigan , Minnesota, Montana, New Hampshire, New York, Idaho, Oregon, South Dakota, Vermont, Virginia, Washington. So you can ask your husband or relatives to make sure you buy warm clothing to keep you warm.
  2. Find a good Airplane agent to buy one-way ticket from your city to the United States. On the plane, the flight attendant will serve meals and snacks so you’re not allowed to carry food on the airplane. Each person has their own TV in front of them.
  3. It takes from 13 to 24 hours to come to America. It depends on where you come exactly, you may need to transfer from the main US airport to your location.
    • You may need to check with the airplane agent to know about baggage information. Usually, most passengers can carry two bags and a small luggage for free of charge.
    • Ask your agent to see what things you can carry on the airplane. There are some medicines you can’t carry on. All medicines that you bring to America must have doctor approval, date of expiration, except diabetes medicines.
    • Ask your agent to see how much money you can bring with you to the US. If you bring more than 10,000 USD, then you need to report in the 105 form by the time you are about to arrive in America.
    • You will receive two I-94 forms to fill out before the airplane land in America. The airport officials will keep one and they attach one form to your passport.

I want to congratulate you on this trip. Again, it takes time to adjust to living in the US because it is very different from your home town. If you live in small provincial town in developing countries then it may take you longer time to adjust to US living lifestyle.

Asian woman in front of China Town in San Francisco California

Asian woman in front of China Town in San Francisco California

When you come to the US, keep asking your spouse about things. Go with him to learn the road. Get the learning permit and a driver license is the first thing you need to do. Most people drive car here so you need to have a driver license. You should pay attention to surroundings so you can adapt to the new world faster. Owning a car is a must. Car is cheap in America. If you work in a low job like a cleaner, then you can earn about $1,200 a month. You can buy an old 2000 Toyota Camry car which costs about $2,000, in two months of working as a cleaning job.

I don’t know about other countries, but immigrating to America is a great opportunity. Especially, if you were trained hard in your hometown, then you will have no problem to be successful here. It is a land of opportunities. You have a talent, you will succeed in this country.

Unless you write and listen to English perfectly, I suggest you take the English as a Second Language (ESL) class. These classes help you know about life in the US, how to look for a job, how to speak with your co-workers, and learn other things. You should take at least one ESL class because it is helpful.

If you can eat American food every day, then you are ok. If not, I suggest you learn how to cook to fit your taste. Ask your husband to see if there are Asian markets in his area. In most of US cities where there are Asian people live, there are Asian supermarkets as H-Mark, Grand Mark, Thai, Philippines or Vietnamese markets.

If you plan to study in the US, then I suggest you do so. Don’t give up. It does not matter how old you are, you can go to school and get a degree. Most of community colleges in America offer flexible hours for students so you can study most of the time you have to earn your degree. As you know, getting a degree in the US will help you not only in your knowledge but also in your income. For example, you work as a housekeeper in a hotel and earn $1,500 a month. Your salary in this kind of job may increase about $1,800 a month in 10 years. However, if you go to college and get a BS degree in 5 years, then your salary (beginning $3,000 a month) may go up to $10,000 a month in the next 10 years. You see the differences? And, the US government provides financial aid to pay for your college if your income is low.

Again, welcome to the land of opportunities where you are coming. I wish all the best to you for this new adventure. Taking a positive attitude and working hard will help you become a successful person in the United States of America.

P.S. Don’t forget to share with us your successful life in America. We are grateful that you joined and found your life mate at our free Asian dating site. Good luck!

Online Dating Scams – Fight These Dating Sites Scammers

Online dating scams usually send distracted messages to our members at Asian date net so we list them on this page. Some of these internet dating scams posted their stolen pictures from online sources and some of them used their real photos. There are dating sites scams from every corner on the globe, Asian, African, European and even American. They are everywhere. Precaution is a big plus when using online dating to find love and romance, relationship and marriage. When you receive messages such as telling sob stories, shortage of travel expenses, you receive a gift, ask you to go to transfer money, receiving money, then don’t trust such messages. Love is supposed to be FREE.

Asian dating Female scam
Asian dating Female scam
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Filipina dating scam
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Singapore dating scam
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Dating scam in Philippines
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Dating scammer in Japan
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Nigerian scammer
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Southeast dating scam
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Dating scammer in China
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Dating scam in Canada

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Caucasian dating scam

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Thai scammer

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Cambodian scammer

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Dating scammer in India

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Indonesian dating scam

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Pinay scammer

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Vietnamese dating scam

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Online scam in Bangkok

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Thailand scammer

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Dating scam in Hong Kong

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Dating scam in UK

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Dating scammer in USA

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Russian dating scam

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Piany scam

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Philippines-Scammer

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Malaysian dating scam

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Thai girl – dating scam

Dating scammer Thailand

Dating scammer Thailand

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Dating scam Philippines

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Western dating scammer

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White man dating scam

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American dating scammer

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British dating scammer

Filipina Women Seeking Foreigners For Marriage – The Truth Is Exposed

Filipina women seeking foreigners for marriage has been a phenomenon in the last few years. There are thousands of Filipina brides immigrated to the US, Canada, Australia and other Western countries every year. The truth is finally exposed on this article. I am writing this article for both single men in the West and Filipina ladies to understand the reasons that they are attracted with each other.

Filipinas in Manila street of Philippines

Filipinas in Manila street of Philippines

Why are Filipina women seeking foreigners for marriage?

Filipina women are seeking foreigners for marriage because they are attracted to both men and Western dollars. This is the truth. They are attracted to White men who are tall and respective as well as friendly to every one. In the Philippines, if a woman gets married with a Western man, then not only she but her whole family are proud. She usually shows off her foreign husband to friends, relatives and even unknown people in public. So yeah, Filipinas do love foreign men oveasea very much. On the other hand, Western dollars are also important which make them decide to marry a foreign husband. Some argue that the Philippines women are gold diggers, this is untrue. They are more attracted to Western dollars because they have a chance to work and make good money in the West.

Another bonus advantage for Pinays marry Foreign men is the beautiful kids who are mostly similar to the fathers. Woh, these kids have tall nose, white skin, brown or blonde hair, beautiful eyes, cute mouth, and etc. Every time I go to a market in Angeles or Manila city, a Pinay takes her kids to the market, people look at these white kids with their pride. To tell you the truth, they are so pretty.

Filipina ladies and Foreign husbands with kids

Filipina ladies and Foreign husbands with kids (Photos: Google)

Why are foreigners looking for Filipina wives and take them back home?

Most of these single men can’t marry a wife in the first world country. The rest of them just want to marry a young Filipina wife. What are other reasons that these guys travel 1000s miles from the West to the Philippines for a dinner and then marry a girl? If you go to the Filipino market center in the West, then you will see many Western men with Filipina wife and they are happy. The man looks like her father’s age and the wife looks like his daughter’s age. However, they are husband and wife.

There are low, middle and high class women in the Philippines. Most of single Filipina ladies who accept an old foreign husband are low class. Upper to high class women are also attracted to foreign men as well but they select the men whom they love to build family with. You can see on these profiles at our Filipina dating service, there are low and high class of single women looking for foreign men. Usually, upper class educated women are careful in choosing their husband. Lower class women don’t have many options. They live in miserable living conditions so they are seeking a foreign husband to move out of the Philippines and come to a developed nation to work and make money.

Filipinas profiles at Asiandatenet.com

Filipinas profiles at Asiandatenet.com

There are some rumors that nothing-to-loose men in the West go to the Philippines to take advantage of the poor. Well, this is somewhat true. However, there are mutual benefits of both the guy and the lady. He can help her to get to the West, has an opportunity to work and make good money. She can be his young wife who can satisfy his sexual needs because Filipina’s are very attractive. She is not as hard head as Western women. She won’t give him a hard time. She lets him have sex even when she is not in a good mood. Unlike other Western ladies who give their husband a cold shoulder every time they are not in good mood. He treats her as a Queen. She treats him with respect and stay with him to thank him for bring her to the land-of-opportunities country where she can work and help her parents and siblings back home.

In other words, Filipinas (Pinays) offer the best return on investment (ROI). A foreign man who spends about $1,200 for air plane ticket, another $2,000 for the wedding and $2,000 for expenses in the Philippines. He has a young and sexy wife. When she comes to his hometown, he can enjoy the best young wife that many men don’t have. Also, she can be the best housewife because most of Filipina women are trained about cooking, cleaning, etc when they were young. So there are a lot of advantages to marry a Filipino wife.

In conclusion, Filipinas looking for foreign husbands is because they love the man who comes from the great countries in the world, as well as they have a chance to come to the West and make good money, while foreign men can get married with a young and beautiful Filipina wife.

Dating & Marriage Advice For Filipina Ladies in the Philippines

You are amongst the single Filipina ladies in the Philippines who dream about dating or marrying a man who lives in the US, Canada, Australia, France, Italy, Poland, UK, and so on. When you meet and chat with a guy through an Asian dating site, you have no idea what his current marital status as well as general background like finance, career, interests, hobby and etc. You are taking a risk to see him and marry him. So, I am writing one article to list some tips and advice for you to consider before making the utmost important decision for you life.

Filipina ladies & Western men

Filipina ladies & Western men (Trobicalmba)

I live in America so I know it is easy to find a single woman here. What you need to do is to walk up to a lady you like and start talking. You can find out later whether she has a crush on you or not. Another way is to find a girl in a bar or club, guys can use the same method to approach to a lady. That’s simple to find a date in the United States. However, getting a date is completely different from building a relationship and getting married. Dating and marriage are the long and difficult stage that many men failed to do so.

Most single Western men who joined free online dating service like Asiandatenet.com or others to look for Filipino women are above 35 years old. You hardly find a 20-year-old American man who joined a dating website to find a foreign wife. And, you know what? These men just look for young single, widow or divorced women in the Philippines or other Asian countries for marriage. As I mentioned above, they can find a date in America but they want a young and beautiful girl so that’s why they are interested in you.

Do you think you are prettier and sexier than Native American women?

These American men think Filipina ladies are more beautiful and sexier than American women. As you know more than 75% American ladies who turn to 35 and up are fat. It does not matter if they don’t mind to date or marry a big woman. Most of these guys are not interested in dating a fat lady so they want to look for a Filipina wife. I am a Filipino man so I know exactly how the Filipinas look like. Most of us, from teen girls to middle aged women, are slim, attractive and sweet. Another advantage is that most American men don’t pay attention whether you are in low, middle or high class. What they are looking for is the sweet woman for marriage.

Western men are strongly in bed which is a good thing that attracts the women. Many American women usually give their men “cold shoulder” when they are in bad mood. You are Asian. You have this excellent and special trait about treating and respecting your husband, which most men like it, never give him a cold shoulder, even when you are in bad mood. This is very important in the marriage so you know how to treat a husband to make sure he is happy and satisfied.

We Filipinas are family oriented and we work hard to help our family. We don’t tend to depend on others to help us but work to make money and live dependently. We always help our husbands to build up a good family and take good care of our children. However, Filipino men in the Philippines don’t treat us right. There are many domestic violence in here that make us scared to date a local man. In fact, as we have seen many bad relationships between local Filipino men and women here. Oh God, 80% of local men get women pregnant and “gone with the wind”. That’s scary for all of us. We love Western men because they are more responsible than local Filipino guys.

Every year, there are thousands of successful marriages between Filipina ladies with Western guys. In America, statistics showed that thousands of Visas of new Filipina brides who come to this country every year. If you first meet a Western man in person or online, then don’t talk about money. We are popular in the West because of our sweet, loyal and family oriented characteristics. Don’t let him think us like gold diggers so never ask for money from him if you want to have a long term relationship that leads to marriage.

Asian Pregnant Women Rush Into America & Canada To Give Birth & Gain Automatic Citizenship

Thousands of Asian pregnant women rush into America & Canada to give birth and get automatic citizenship for their newborn kids. Giving birth in the United States & Canada is a well-known phenomenon in Asia and most young mothers dream to do that. Most of these Asian moms who get pregnant from 6 to 8 months want to deliver their babies in these countries. They are Chinese, Malaysian, Indonesian, Thai, Filipino, Taiwanese, Vietnamese, India, and others Asia countries who are wealthy and high educated want their babies born in Canada or America.

Asian woman gives birth in US and Canada

Asian woman gives birth in US and Canada

Although is is very expensive for birth tourists but these mothers still want to deliver in these great countries. They save money and someone lend money from their family and relatives to give birth in the US or Canada soil. They think the precious gift to give their newborns is the American or Canadian citizenship. They think this is a good investment for their kids in the future. The total expense for the whole trip may be up to $40,000 or 247 Chinese Yuan, 2,400,000 Indian Rupee, 142,412 Malaysian Ringgit, 500,284,000 Indonesian Rupiah, 1,309,880 Thai Baht, 1,781,580 Philippine Peso, 853,800,000 Vietnamese Dong. This is the big money in these countries. However, most Asian mothers want to get a good future for their children so they can sacrifice themselves for their kids generation.

What is the benefits of getting a US & Canadian citizenship?

  • Free education from Kindergarden to High School
  • Either mom or dad can stay with the baby in America or Canada until the kid is 18 years old
  • Some Asian countries allow dual citizenship so the baby can have dual citizenship
  • The kid can sponsor their parents and siblings to these nations after 18 years old
  • Good education system from college and universities in the US or Canada
  • Get good jobs after graduation from universities in these countries
  • Enjoy the best healthcare system in these countries

The priceless gift to give the newborn is the US or Canadian citizenship. In China, there are many companies that provide tourist visa to give birth for rich young mothers who want to give birth in these countries. Nowadays, young moms from other Asian countries want to come to America or Canada to deliver their babies as well. The cost for the package is about $40,000 and only rich Asian people, celebrities, officials, high educated people can afford for this. The low or poor class can’t afford this kind of money. If you live in rural areas of Richmond or Vancouver, then you will see many hotels and homes that act as the nursing places for these pregnant Asian ladies and their newborns. Usually they come to America between the 6th and 8th month of pregnancy and leave when the baby is one or two months old.

Please remember that Richmond or Vancouver hospitals charge the same money for maternity. However, most people who live in these countries have health insurance which takes care of these hospitalized bills. The mothers usually deductibles and the insurance companies pay the rest. The total amount of money is the same for those who live in this country and those who live from another country. For people who live in Asia, you may not understand clearly about this. If you have early delivery in 7 or 8 months, then your baby must stay in the hospital for nursery until it is old enough. In this case, you have to pay more money.

“anyone born in United States or Canada will gain automatic citizen and obtains access to public education, university loans, voting, and so on.”

In Asia, people think America and Canada is the land of opportunities. They love the clean food, fresh air, education system and freedom. Most Asian people want to come to these countries to live so they try to get their kids here first. Some Asian men want their wives give birth in those countries to do business or investment later on. However, laws is laws. This is the laws of the United States of America and Canada. Many people take advantages of this laws to gain personal benefits.

If you search for Canada or USA tourist Visa or foreigners giving birth in America, then you will see many websites that provide these services. That means foreigners, especially Asians, giving birth in the USA and Canada is popular these days. Thousands of Asian young mothers get tourist Visa to deliver their babies in Canadian or American soil and gain automatic citizenship for their kids.

Anyway, there are more and more Asian moms give birth in America and Canada every day. Giving birth in these countries is very popular nowadays. The meaningless gift that Asian mothers want to give their kids when they are born is the automatic citizenship from the great country.

Do you think the birth tourists trying to use America’s or Canada’s citizenship laws as back door into these great countries?

Asian-Asian & Asian-Western Couples – Discuss Before Getting Married

There are some members at our Asian dating site asked me about what to do or things to discuss before getting married with a single woman or man they met online. So, I am writing this article to briefly discuss about this. This is based on my personal experience and what I’ve read from online tips. I’ve met my husband online 10 years ago and I like to share some advice.

Asian-Asian couple & marriage

Asian-Asian couple & marriage

It does not matter if you are an Asian man who met a woman and go back to your original hometown to get married or you are a western man who met an Asian woman, as well as you are an Asian lady who met a single man in the West, you should communicate about what your expectations about married life before jumping on it. Don’t expect the married life as bright as the light. There are some dark sides that you need to discuss with your significant partner.

  1. Sex is the most important thing in your relationship so make sure you are completely satisfied. Some people are being single for a long time so when they have sex with their second half, they feel great and they think they are satisfied, but in fact, it is not. So, think about this matter as it is very important for your married life.
  2. Home mortgage is the thing you need to talk with your future soul mate. If you live in the US, Canada, Australia or other Western countries and you own a house, most of us have an outstanding debt called home mortgage, then you need to briefly explain about this or she may not understand or get scared of the big debt you currently have. For example, you live in Los Angeles of California and buy a house for $400,000, put 20% for down payment and still owe $320,000. This is the big money in Asia, like 15 millions pesos in Philippines, 2 millions Chinese Yuan, 11 millions Thai Baht, 1.3 billions Cambodian Riel, 6.8 billions Vietnamese Dong and so on.
  3. You and your partner may need to discuss about how many children are enough. Do you want kids or how many are questions you should ask your partner. Especially, when Asian men in the West or Western men get married with middle-aged Asian ladies (U40+) who are widowed or divorced, you guys should ask them about these questions.
  4. Where to live is the question for a woman. You should as your fiancĂ© about where to live. Does he own a house? Does he live with his parents and siblings? Ask him when you come to the West, where are you two going to live? In the West, most people are independent so they usually don’t live with their parents and/or siblings, unless they are poor who can’t afford their own place so they have to share the rent with their family.
  5. For most of Christian Asian and Western people, they all believe in God. So, make sure you ask your partner what their religion is and if they want to join your Christian religion. Some people want to keep their own religion.
  6. Household errands are the questions you don’t have to ask if you marry an Asian wife. Most Asian wives are perfect in household work like washing dishes, doing laundry, cooking meals, etc.
  7. If you are an Asian man who gets married, then you know about tie family obligations. Most Asian people are tie with their family, siblings and relatives. Some of them don’t even need friends but family is just enough for them. If you are a Western man, then you should ask about this with her.
  8. Career is also an important issue you need to discuss with your future partner. Most of Asian ladies don’t work after they have babies. They just stay home to handle errands and take care of the kids. So you need to talk to her about the busy lifestyle in the West, that she needs to work and share the bills with you.
  9. When it comes to money, it is hard to ask but you should talk straightly about bank accounts and bill sharing with your future partner. Most married couples argue about this money issue so straight it out right now. Do you want to share a bank account or open an account under your own name? How about sharing bills like home mortgage, utilities, medical insurance, and etc.
Asian-Western Couples n Marriages

Asian-Western Couples n Marriages (Google images)

Every year, there are many marriages from Asian-Asian singles and Western-Asian personals. When they come to the Western countries, including America, Canada, Australia, Italy, France, UK, and so on, there are about 25% couples broke. The major reason that causes them separated or divorced is the lack of communication which lead to wrong understanding from one of another. You need to understand that the lifestyle in the West is different from Asia. The United States of America is the land of opportunities for those who are smart and working hard.

Why are Old Chinese Men the Ideal Husbands for Single Women in China?

If you ask a Chinese woman about the ideal husband she wants to marry, then the answer will be the middle-aged man who is around 40 years old, successful in life, as well as who have a car and a house. A divorced Chinese man is the more preferable husband than a single man toward women in China in terms of choosing the best husband. Most of old men have male traits that young men don’t have. However, there are many unmarried ladies in this country because of these picky choice. They are “lelftover” or shang nu women who are over 28 years old and unmarried.

Old Chinese man and young woman

Old Chinese man and young woman

It is hard to find such a man who is available in China. If they are 40 and successful, then most of them are married. However, they usually have love affairs with other young women. This is another issue that single ladies are afraid of. Since Chinese girls set high standards on seeking a husband, most of them are still not married. So they have to sign up their personal ads through online dating services in China to find such a good husband. They’d rather stay single but don’t want to marry a “bad” man. From these Chinese dating sites, they are in hope to find a middle-aged man who owns a house and have a car so they are good taken care of.

Again, it is not easy to find such men in China. Most of single ladies also look for Chinese men who live in the West. This is an easier way. Nowadays, there are many single old Chinese American, Australian, Canadian men who are single and looking for a wife back home. I have to define Chinese men who live in USA, Australia, Canada, France and others so you can understand more about them. They are immigrants along with their descendants from Mainland China, Hong Kong, Macau, Taiwan, and others. Most of these guys have a hard time to find a young Chinese wife in the West so they are looking for in their hometown. This is the excellent choice for single young women back home because they are perfectly matched.

Chinese girls want to have security in life. They want to live with a man who can take care of them on safety about finance. In China, most single women are adviced to stay away from Phoenix men who discriminate and strictly choose the future wife. They are the guys who try hard in life for succeed in career so they don’t get married with less qualified than them. If a lady is not rich, then she won’t be qualified for the phoenix men.

Single girls in China have traditional thoughts about marriage. They think marriage as a lifetime commitment so divorce is shameful for the family. People have tie family relationship so they want to find a husband for life. That’s why they are looking for an old and success husbands. If you search for a Chinese single lady in China and drop her a message and you are the same or older than her 5 years old, then you won’t get a reply from her. She thinks that you are not matured enough for her. This is the reason that most young Chinese single women seeking a husband who is at least 10 years older than them.

Finally, I personally think that Chinese women have a hard time in choosing a marriage partner. There are many difficult standards they set about the husband that are getting married in the future. I suggest that single Chinese girls should use the internet dating sites to help them find such a man. Don’t just rely on introductions from relatives or friends, they must take action to find their dream husband. Age is getting older, you know?

So, old Chinese men are the ideal husbands for single, divorced or widow women in China because of their secured financial status and materials.

Asian Men – Do You Envy Western Men Because Of Size?

Asian men envy Western men because of size when it comes to dating a white woman. Average Asian guys are around 5’8 in height so dating a 5’9 white lady is not appropriate. I mean, unless you can find a less than 5’8 girl, you should stick with Asian women. Western men are the best match for both Asian and White ladies because of their size.

Asian women

Asian women

When I hang out with my Western friends, I envy at them because of ‘tool’ size. I do. I am 5’7 tall and they are around 5’11 or 6 ft in height. Man, I feel jealous because of their size. Every time I watch adult movies, I feel embarrassed when compared the ‘tool’ size from these stars to my ‘tool’ size. Anyway, I don’t know about other people but I do envy of Western men. They look bigger than Asian guys.

Don’t you make it too obvious? You may say so but you know? That’s the truth. Unless you stop hanging out with Western friends, you look “down” behind them. Most women do like big guys regardless their size. Some around 5’5 ft Asian women hang out with 5’10 Western men. Why do they like those tall guys?

Not all Asian men envy Westerners. This is me. I do. The ‘tool size’ is not the major aspect of my envy. It is something else. I don’t list it here. You will be mad at me.

Don’t feel envy and being sad, guys. According to statistics that I read online, the largest ‘tool size’ on record belonged to a Chinese guy. So, I think a few Asian guys have big ‘tool size’ but most of them are small.

However, most Western friends hang out with me. They are friendly and never show the discrimination about small size at all. They are fine. So why do you envy at them? They are friendly and cheerful with me because they got the best at everything a man has, like height, cool face, strength and size.

How about the envy comes from your brain? That’s what you think. So stop thinking about size you will feel better?

Asian American man in Chinatown LA

Asian American man in Chinatown LA

Why do most women prefer Asian men for dating and marriage?

I think Asian men are small so they usually don’t hang out with Western men. This is a mistake. I suggest that you show your self confidence. Size doesn’t matter to most women, you know? Your confidence is very important. Most Asian women prefer to date and marry you because you can speak, write and understand their original language. It does not matter if they were born in the West or have lived her for long, most of these women have their first and second generations that speak the Asian language. So, they prefer to date and marry you as the first choice.

To tell you the truth, most White women prefer dating with a Western man because of their dignity and respect. Only a few of them mentioned about ‘size’. Most of White ladies complain about shyness of Asian men whom take too much time to approach a woman. I completely understand why Asian guys take too much time to approach a white lady. They don’t have much confidence because of themselves.

Asian man and Asian woman at Chinatown SF

Asian man and Asian woman at Chinatown SF

Asian American men or other Western Asian men

Asian American men or other Western Asian men in Canada and Australia make the best boyfriends or husbands. No doubt about that. Native Western men are strong (agree!) but they don’t understand about Asian culture. For instance, Asian American, Asian Australian or Asian Canadian men live and nurture the excellent values from the West but also rooted Asian originally. They treat the woman with respect, no domestic violence, take good care of their wife. I personally give compliments about Asian guys in the West.

Asian men are good boyfriends and husbands. This is the truth. Asian people consider work, school and family the first priority thing in their life, not friends. We tie with family relationships which we care and feel responsible towards each member. So we are awesome boyfriends and husbands. The big size from Western men is not a big deal compared with our other important traits. So, be confident.